When I first met her, we rushed things and had unprotected sex, which is how she became pregnant with our first child. I didn’t have a choice but to marry her. I never had the chance to date her or get to know her well because I was always preoccupied with work.
I am 36 years. My wife and I have been married for five years. We have two children, a five-year-old girl, and a two-year-old boy. Our relationship has not been without challenges.
I met my wife when I was inexperienced in the realm of relationships. I had an idea of the type of woman I wanted to marry, but I never had the chance to meet one.
I was looking for a woman who is hardworking, assertive, open-minded, and intelligent, but I got the polar opposite. I’d been single for a long time; I’d never been lucky with women until I met my wife.
After two years of being together, I began to realize that we were never meant to be. Because she is semi-illiterate, we couldn’t even have a meaningful conversation.
I became dissatisfied and began dating. She must have become aware of my actions. I spied on her recently by installing a call recorder on her phone.
Following that, I discovered some intimate conversations she had with other men. I discovered she was having extramarital affairs.
I confronted her and warned her about her extramarital affairs. Because of our children, I had to forgive her. For the children’s emotional and psychological well-being, I want them to grow up with both parents.
But the agony of discovering her infidelity hasn’t gone away. What should I do in this situation?
Roddy
